Emotional energy is magnetic in nature. Humans build up energy when they get emotional and that energy seeks demagnetization or needs to be discharged. The act of building up emotional energy is also what is known as creating tension. When tension builds up between two or more people, they need to release it. The act of emotional expression is for releasing that tension. People who are not aware of the demagnetization process of energy may ignorantly hold themselves back from emotional release.

To demagnetize is to release. When you release, you get yourself back in a state of peace or equilibrium. Being charged up for too long would only be disruptive to your energy circuit. Your energy current flow needs to be at proper levels otherwise it would be damaging to your system. Poise and harmony is the natural state of all things. You cannot function in overdrive for too long. It is only meant to be experienced for a short while. Either way the release has to happen and the best way is to do it correct.
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There is negative tension and positive tension. Both kinds of tension also seek demagnetization. It is never good to hold either positive or negative tension for too long as it will only start getting in the way of your normal functioning. Peace and stability of mind comes when the energy flow is in balance. Therefore as much as being in a highly excited state of positive emotion is desirable, there is also an important need to calm the emotions and operate from a quiet center. Express and release to have balance.

When one feels an emotion of love building up, magnetic current is stimulated from the heart and permeates the whole body. According to the law of evolution, all vibration tends to rise upwards. Therefore the magnetic current rises from the heart to the head and concentrate especially in the eyes and around the lips. The pupils are enlarged and the eyes begin to sparkle. They seek the eyes of another individual in order to be demagnetized. That is why when we feel love, we tend to look into somebody’s eyes.

The lips also unconsciously seek demagnetization through what is commonly known as a kiss. If the love of the two individuals is on the same plane, their lips will meet, because their magnetic currents are vibrating of the same rate and seeking expression through the lips. But if the love of one individual is more of a mental type, his lips will seek demagnetization on the forehead which is the seat of thinking powers. If the love is an adoring kind, it will seek demagnetization on the person’s cheek or hands.

Sometimes when you feel excited to be in the presence of someone else, you feel cold. That is because you are feeling sort of thrilled. Then when you reach out and touch the other person, you feel warm. That is because your feelings are appeased and the intermingling of your energy field with the other person and changes your vibration from a more excited and electrical state to a more calm and magnetic state. You feel more at rest, and complete when the circuit is closed. As long as that connection is made, you will feel the warmth and stillness of it.

When two individuals have negative energy built up with each other, they seek mutual demagnetization through quarrelling. But when a third party intervenes, they usually turn against him and he gets from both of them the negative energy which he was trying to neutralize in them. Therefore if one does not know how to approach a case like that, it’s better not to intervene but let people settle their own differences. All they need is demagnetization to feel more at ease and a little physical or moral bruise is fine.

After they have expressed themselves out to one another, the pressure which they could not bear is gone, and they feel at ease again. Therefore one should not see fights or confrontations as necessarily a bad thing. All communication is energetic in nature, and when negative vibes have been allowed to be mutually demagnetized, harmony can then be restored as the natural state. When people can learn to argue or fight constructively, they can heal their hurts and reconcile with each other a better outcome.

The important thing is to deal with it there and then. All emotions are in the moment, which means that when you let the moment pass and try to deal with it later, it is not the same. When emotions are felt in the present, they are conscious. When emotions are not dealt with in the present moment, they don’t go away but they sink deeper into the subconscious. Those subconscious emotions will seek expression through unconscious and destructive means in ordinary affairs that often prove self sabotaging.

There needs to be a balance between fire and love. Fire is the energetic state of our being which can also be called our drive, self esteem or sense of power. Love is our natural goodwill towards others. We cannot express love to others properly when our sense of power has been lost or damaged. We need to regain who we are through the act of demagnetization. The energy that has been built up needs to be released. After we have expressed our fire then are we free to express our love without feeling hurts.

Come to some form of resolution or pre-resolution to diffuse the energy and let it go. You do not need things to be fixed but you only need to know that it is going to be. The purpose of demagnetization of negative energy is to get back to a place of feeling fine. Only when you feel fine can you work on the solution properly. People who ignorantly hold back negative energy from being released will only make it to subconsciously fester and render their actions in other situations destructive in some manner.

The need to demagnetize emotional energy is the reason why we do the things we do to each other whether seemingly positive or seemingly negative. There is nothing positive or negative about demagnetization, except how we think about it that makes it so. We can also demagnetize energy within ourselves by calming the mind and letting go of the feeling. It is a deliberate act of release so that we can focus our attention back on what we desire. We must feel our feelings before we can let go of them.[/hidepost]