Alpha males are able to do anything they want. They are unlimited in what they can do and they act as if they have permission to do so. You can have anything you want as long as you do not limit yourself from having it. Authority goes to those who take it. Act like you have permission to talk to a girl, to hold her hand and even to kiss her. When you have to seek permission, you do not have it. At least act like you have it, and if she doesn’t want something, you will know by the body language she displays.

Girls feel attraction towards a guy who dares to do things with them that most other guys don’t. It immediately sets such a guy apart from the rest. There is a certain kind of boldness, power and confidence that he possesses. She feels that such a guy is able to lead her into doing things that excite her, fascinate her and thrill her without holding back with fear of disapproval. He’s able to embrace her into his world fearlessly and sweep her off her feet. His own freedom allows her to enjoy with total abandon.
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Girls are attracted to alpha males like guys are attracted to hot looking women. Attraction is not a choice. It is a biological response to what we experience about another person. Girls like top males. They are the ones who are able to offer her the highest quality seed which would produce offspring with the highest survivability rate. It is an instinct driven in them to create life of the highest quality with those they perceive as the best mates. Convey that you are a top male in the way you look, talk and behave.

Girls can sense it when a guy has something going for him in his life, whether be it power, money, status or passion. That is why the first step to becoming more attractive to females is to get something going in your life. Use whatever that you have as your point of power, to make you feel that you have it all together. The more things you have going for you, the more market value you have. Smart guys focus on building up their value in life first before seeking to woo females. Other guys achieve neither one.

It is always easier and smarter to fight a battle from a superior position than from an inferior one if you have the choice. You always have the choice if you know it. You are a creator of your reality and you choose your battles. Victory gives you energy and confidence to win more while defeat discourages and saps your energy. You make it easier for yourself when you build up your life before seeking relationship. Carry yourself like you have higher status and greater value than the other person. Be dominant.

When in groups or one on one with other people, choose to talk only about things that interest you. Speak your mind and express your own opinions about things even if you think others may think differently from you. Live in your own reality and not in the reality of others. You are your own authority and you do not need other’s approval or permission to be what you are or do what you wish. Let others be part of the group mind but you be a strong individual. Top males always exert who they are to the fullest.

Take the initiative when it comes to contacting and meeting up with friends. Most people are lazy and so you have to take control of your social life by initiating things. An alpha male choose how things shall be for him and acts upon them without waiting for others to do them. By taking responsibility, you have the power to shape your world according to your will. You can have as much joy and fun as you want as long as you go out and take it for yourself. Be leader of your own experience and pleasure in life.

The one who cares the least, controls the relationship. It is an irony that you have to give up control in order to have control. Act like you can take her or leave her. You are there to offer something of great value and if she doesn’t want it, you can always give it to somewhere else. It is her loss only and not yours at all. You do not need her. This gives you power unimaginable. When she finds that she cannot control you, she values and respects you more. You can love her without her weapons being of effect.

Always let the other person chase you more than you chase them. Be laid back and cool in the relationship. Let them think they’re more attracted to you than you are to them. The key here is to let them think. Even if you are more attracted to them than they are to you, never let them know that. Keep them guessing. Be the one with the power. Keep your cards close to your chest. Let them perceive you have more value to them then they have towards you. Hence, you are playing from a superior position.

Control the frame and do not become beta by lowering your status through arguing with her in her frame. Have a strong reality and reframe what she says into your own frame of things. Let others come into your world, and not you entering theirs. You are the central figure and the star. Act as if others have the honor and privilege of being with you. You don’t need them and can drop them anytime you want for something better. Be a challenge and never a sure thing. They must work to keep you around.

Being alpha is being the best that you can be. It is about being yourself. It is not about playing games, but it is about going directly for what you want, when you want it. Your relationship with feminine energy is your relationship with the rest of your life. How you handle women is how you handle your world. The alpha male takes what he wants without hesitating or treading timidly about it. Being alpha is to act out your true status as a godlike being in this world where the universe is all yours for the taking.[/hidepost]