In order to be a vibrational match for your desire, you must feel it as normal. It goes counter intuitive to the way people get all excited when they are imagining their desire or experiencing it manifesting. You must act like it’s no big deal. Feel good about it and then be cool about it. Acting like it is too good for you or that it’s a big thing would mean that you are not in a vibrational match with it. People with lots of money or lots of attention from the opposite sex feel normal about such things and are totally cool.

There are three main areas of life which are health, wealth and love. Health is the easiest thing to expect because it is part of our physical bodies. If you feel that health is a natural thing to have, then feel the same for wealth and love as well. That is the way to be in resonance with it. Think of it as very normal and have a ho-hum attitude towards those things. Health, wealth and love are different aspects of well being. They belong to you by divine right therefore you can expect those things to be in your life.
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Feeling normal about the things you desire does not mean that you do not show appreciation or act ungrateful about them. What is required is balance and poise. Some people get overexcited over the good things that come to them and wonder why they don’t get them as often. You must never lose your presence no matter what positive things may come your way. Always be cool and have the attitude that these things are rightfully yours. Feeling they are too good for you would make yourself less worthy.

Show appreciation and gratitude towards good things. Do it joyfully but in a calm manner. Feel that you are totally worth these things and never allow yourself to be led to think otherwise. Influence in your environment may lead you to think how great it is to have this thing or that thing, or this person or that person. That is why most people think they must work hard to obtain good things in life or that they must impress others in order to win their favor. Don’t give your power away by succumbing to influence.

The world is always trying to make good things seem too good for you so that you will be under its control. There are two ways to assert the power of influence over others and they are fear and awe. Fear is the influence of making you feel that you can be hurt by something or someone and have things taken from you. Awe is the influence of making you feel that something or someone is so wonderful that you have to please it and win its favor. It is harder to get something when you are influence by fear or awe.

You must break free from the illusion that the world creates and disarm the weapons of fear and awe that others have over you. Once others have no control over you, then you will have freedom and power to have what you want. Acknowledge the beauty and qualities of people or things around you, and then act comfortable with those things in your presence. People who feel such things are too good for them don’t even dare to acknowledge the beauty or qualities in those things because they are too insecure.

Stop all these self sabotaging thinking about a certain amount of money being too much for you, a certain person being too attractive for you, a certain car, house or thing being too amazing for you. Treat all wealth, people and things the same no matter how awesome and amazing they seem. Acknowledge their differing qualities but treat them all as equally normal in your presence. When you can expand your comfort zone to include all good things, you will be in total vibrational resonance with all of them.

As a child, we always felt normal about all good things in our experience and naturally felt that we could have them all. It was only society’s influence over time that made us feel certain things or people were beyond our range and that we had to try hard to get them. You must undo society’s programming and get back to the place of your natural state of mind. Know who you are as a divine child being worthy of all things and naturally expecting all good things. Start feeling and acting in that way once again.

Treat money and attractive people normally. Do not feel different about them. Feel indifferent. Do not show too much interest. Show disinterest. You wouldn’t be taking too much interest in a thing that is normal available to you. This is the abundance mindset. When money or other people feel that you are putting them on a pedestal, you are pushing them away from you. No one wants someone greater or lesser than them. Everyone and everything only wants its equal. Only things of similar frequencies attract.

If you want to attract money or people towards you, make them feel that they are your equal. Do not feel insecure around them or become unsure of yourself. Treat good things normally no matter the amount or quality. Watch how rich people act and feel towards money and watch how married people act and feel towards their spouse. You will find that the underlying feeling of indifference and attitude of normalcy is always there. Treat what you desire to have the same way as you treat what you already have.

The proper application of the Law of Attraction for vibrational matching is actually to dampen, not magnify your emotions. If reaching your goal seems like a miracle or a very lucky break, you are actually pushing it away from you. This is true with anything you might wish to attract whether money, new relationships, career advancement, healing, etc. Enthusiasm about your goals is fine, but if you’re holding yourself in a state of awe and amazement when you think about them then you may never get there.

The key distinction here is your belief. When you feel awe or amazement regarding the idea of attaining something that you want, but the actual belief is that you think it is too good to be true, or that you actually can’t believe that you will get it or deserve it, then your emotional magnification is one of disbelief and not belief. You should have a certain calm and poised state about getting what you want. This makes you a vibrational match with your desire. This is true detachment. As long as you are operating from a place of true belief and you know it, you can then allow yourself to feel as high and as strongly as you wish. All your feelings of excitement and anticipation must come from a place of true belief and at the same time you would really feel quite normal about it.
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