Forgiveness is for yourself more than it is for the person you forgive. Forgiveness is about connecting back to abundance and flow. When someone has wronged you, they have taken something from you or withhold you from something. It creates an energetic response within you in regards to the situation. Forgiveness is doing the inner work that resolves the energetic response and therefore liberates you from the external situation. Forgiveness doesn’t do nothing because it has a literal effect on actual reality.

Quantum physics states that the observable world manifest by probability waves being collapse through the act of observation. The timeline of events are just a sequence of probability waves being collapsed at specific points to create the effect of a continuous experience. Probability waves are collapsed into space time events through the act of focusing the mind. But defocusing the mind causes the exact opposite to happen. Reality is not as fixed as we think because it’s fluid and so forgiveness changes it.

The more we hold on to an idea in mind, the more we perpetuate its existence in physical reality. When we let go of a past event, we free ourselves from its karmic effects and therefore allow synchronicities to arise in the present as though we were in an alternate timeline all along. Forgiveness is for the purpose of not holding reality in place and preventing change. People and situations can change if you allow them to. If you do not forgive, you are not allowing yourself to experience the change made in people.
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When you do not forgive someone who has truly changed although they may have greatly wronged you, then you are causing them needless suffering. It is equally as bad to do harm to another person as it is to withhold another person from good. When a person sincerely repents and seeks reconciliation, they want to experience good with you once again. But by not forgiving and accepting them back, you are perpetuating the experience of evil that was created. Why hold on to a wrong when you want a right?

If someone does not forgive and accept you again even though you have truly changed, you can still forgive that person for doing so. The key thing about forgiveness is that it lies with yourself and not with the other. It is alright if another person doesn’t forgive you. What you need is to forgive yourself and the other person. You can still forgive a person even if they do not change from the wrong they have done. You do not have to wait for change before you forgive. Forgiveness frees up people and reality for change.

Forgiveness is about releasing yourself from the wound you are holding on to. Others may have hurt you, but it is you who choose to keep the hurt or to dissolve it. When a person harbors resentment and unforgiveness, they are full of hurts. Live life free of hurts, wounds and emotional baggage as much as possible. When you are held back by a hurt from a person, you are disempowered in that area of your relationship towards them and to the world. Free yourself from hurts and you will live life with full power.

The act of forgiving is not about being right or wrong, but it is about being at peace. When you are at peace, you are being right. Because when you are not at peace, you are being wronged. Do you want to continue being wronged, or do you want to be at peace? Being at peace is being right with yourself because you are resonating with your true nature. They key to attracting all good in your life is being in a state of peace and joy. Others may be right or wrong, but what you need is a state of peace within.

When you forgive, you are living according to your true nature. If your property is damaged, it can be repaired. If something is stolen from you, it can be replaced. If you are insulted, you can be appeased. By holding on to loss or hurt, you are saying that you can be made less than what you are. But the truth is nothing can make you less than what you are or keep you from being all that you are. Because who you really are is all sufficient spirit. Forgiveness realigns your reality to its true state of wholeness.

The act of forgiving is also about allowing greater good to come in. Everything is working together for your highest good. The divine work of restoration makes things better than what it used to be and causes you to have more than what you used to have. Restoration is allowed to happen when you forgive and let go of what happened so that reality can reorder itself. You can choose to see something as good or bad. When you choose to see it as good, you allow it to turn out for good. All things are truly good.

Forgiveness is how you are able to love freely once again like you have never been hurt. The best kind of love is the carefree and free spirited kind of love. It is the fresh and untainted love that you originally have in your being. Each time you forgive again and again, you are able to love others anew. You are able to love with your whole heart without holding back any love that is in it. The invincible kind of love that comes from an untouchable spirit is what makes you fully happy with total freedom of expression.

The dept of your forgiveness is the dept of your love. The more a person has been forgiven by you, the more love they experience from you, and the more their heart would respond in kind. Because one who is forgiven little, loves little, and one who is forgiven much, the same would also love much. Forgiveness is all about being free to love with your whole heart again, and experiencing your true nature as a whole and indestructible being. To forgive is to be divine. Letting go allows reality to be better than ever.[/hidepost]