The more conscious and aware we become in the ways by which we influence people, the more control and mastery we will have. One of the ways by which many of us may not be conscious of is how we influence others through the energy of our face. It goes beyond just thinking about the general facial expressions that we make, but it also involves the energy that we are sending through our face as well as the intent behind it. Our face is transmitting specific messages all the time through our intentions.

We may be familiar with reading the facial expressions of others in order to read what they are communicating about themselves to us. But there are fewer people who know the skill of transmitting information through their face on purpose. Many people think that it is simply a matter of controlling their facial expressions, but they do not know the specifics to sending messages through their face. The people who’re aware of such ability will gain a superior advantage to affecting others without saying a word.

Of all the things you wear, the most important of all is the expression on your face. That is so true because you can be dressed in the best outfit and have the best surroundings around you, but still wonder why are you not creating the response that you desire from others. The secret is in your face. Be aware of the expression on your face. You will be amazed that the behavior of people towards you can be very much directed by the expression on your face alone. This power is very magical indeed.
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Send messages to others by feeling the emotion and letting it transmit through your face, and facial muscles. Send positive energy through your eyes. Send it through your smile. Send your intended energy through every part of your face. The whole key is feeling the emotion and letting it transmit through your face. This is the natural and conscious way of directing your expressions. It is an internal to external way of working with your influence. External to internal ways tend to feel artificial and stifled.

How do you send energy to people? You do it by feeling the energy in their direction. Emotion is energy in motion and your act of feeling can either pull energy from others into you for reading or it can push energy to others for influencing. You can either send positive energy or negative energy. Be conscious of the kind of energy you are sending to others and you will know exactly how you are influencing them. You can maintain your sending by focusing on it. Keep sending positively and focus on sending.

Other people’s response to you is based on your projection. People do not respond to your being but your projection. The message you project through your face is then reflected back to you by the kind of response it draws from others around you. What you project depends on what are you intentionally transmitting. You may be thinking positive thoughts but if you’re unconsciously intentionally transmitting negative messages, that’s what you will project to others. We can be unconscious to our intentions.

How do we make a connection with others? Connection is based on intent. When we want to connect with others, we simply form the intention to connect. Your intention will immediately cause a physiological and psychological response from the other person. They may not be conscious of the connection but their unconscious will be very much engaged in it. Emotion moves energy while intent focuses it. You may be sending out energy but you can target specific persons or groups of people to be affected.

There are many kinds of positive energy you can send out. Two of them are the energy of confidence and the energy of wellbeing. Both are aspects of the energy of self esteem. All communication is communication of self esteem. In all your influencing, you are either giving self esteem to others or taking it away from them. When you give out self esteem to others, they will be more attracted to you. You can intentionally send out the energy of confidence or the energy of wellbeing. Or you could send a mix.

In any room or environment of people, you will see others gravitating psychologically or even physically towards certain groups or individuals. That is because people are attracted to higher sources of energy. If you want to have strong attractive influence over others in any place, be the source of energy. Purposely send positive energy into your environment. This is the meaning of radiating magnetism and charisma. Cause people to look at you and be drawn to you by the energy you’re sending towards them.

One of the best messages you can send through your face is the energy of enlightened bliss and not having a care in the world. Have a totally detached attitude and walk around with the expression on your face that you are the center of the universe, you got nothing to lose and you have everything you want. When people look at you, they can’t help but get a sense that you know something most people don’t, and that you have a secret to your “I own the world” look. This is a very special winning expression.

The best expression you can give is honest expression. Being honest in your face is the most potent, attractive thing you can do for the opposite sex. It is to transmit your true, honest, ideas, feeling and your nature as a man or woman to the other person. Being honest requires you to be present in your responses. When you stay centered in the present, you trust that your natural response will be just what you need. You remain authentic and allowing your creative self expression to emerge without forcing it.[/hidepost]