The subconscious mind is the seat of emotion and the storehouse of memory. Your subconscious mind is also known as the subjective mind because it is in subjection to the conscious mind. The conscious mind is the seat of the will and the faculty of awareness. Your subconscious mind submits to the impressions and decisions of your conscious mind without arguing or choosing but with total compliance.
 
The relationship between the conscious and subconscious mind follows the principle of mental gender. Understanding the relationship between the conscious and subconscious mind is the whole secret to understanding the relationship between male and female. The reverse is also true.
 
The conscious mind is the male, the leader and the subconscious mind is the female, the follower. The subconscious mind is a helper of the conscious mind. The more the workings of the conscious and subconscious minds are integrated, sync and in harmony, the more perfect the entire mind functions as a whole. The more creative and productive it becomes. The less harmony there is between the two, the more destructive it becomes and the more it collapses and cease to function properly.
 
It is not really your conscious thoughts that create your reality, but it is your subconscious beliefs. It is the subconscious mind, the feminine aspect of mind that is the creative faculty. Have you seen a man give birth? No. It’s only the woman that bears children. The conscious mind, the masculine aspect of mind conditions a thought into the subconscious mind in order to create a belief that manifests into reality. Like a seed that is impregnated into the womb, it is nurtured within and born as a child.
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If you consciously assume something as true even though it may be false, your subconscious mind will accept it as true and proceed to bring about conditions as though it were true. The subconscious mind perceives by intuition. It performs its highest functions when your objective mind is suspended in a sleepy or drowsy state. Just like how woman came into life when man was asleep.
 
The conscious mind is the watchman at the gate. It’s chief function is to protect your subconscious mind from false impressions. A suggestion cannot impose something on the subconscious mind against the will of the conscious mind. It was Adam’s responsibility to protect Eve from the suggestions of the serpent but he didn’t. He failed to use his will therefore the will of man has been faulty ever since the fall. For the conscious will to function at its best, it has to be in subjection to the superconscious will of the universal mind. The heart (subconscious mind) of man has also become faulty and it can only function best by being connected with the heart of God.
 
You do not have to worry about subliminal messages bypassing the conscious mind and imposing itself on the subconscious mind. The subconscious mind will bring the suggestion back to consciousness in one form or another. The conscious mind can then allow it to continue its effect or to reject it, thereby making it void or reducing its power drastically.
 
We know that repetitive subliminal suggestions can still have a certain amount of power over the mind, but once the subconscious mind has received instruction from the conscious mind to reject that suggestion, it will communicate to you in the form of feelings that there is something uneasy or discomforting about the place you are in where the suggestions are coming from. Therefore it will cause you to want to leave the area and go somewhere else. This is how intuition works.
 
The temptation of evil always seek to come through subtle means. The serpent who was more subtle than any beast created by God tried to bypass the conscious mind (Adam) by suggesting straight to the subconscious mind (Eve). But when the subconscious mind communicated the message to the conscious mind, the conscious mind did not do it’s job to reject the suggestion. Therefore the whole mind sinned (was corrupted) and was expelled from a place of perfect happiness or bliss (Eden). The mind of humanity is in a fallen state. Only by operating with the universal mind (Christ) can it access the perfect state of mind.
 
The female seeks to submit to a dominant male and will always seek to test his dominance and leadership. If your will is weak, your subconscious mind will submit to the conscious will of another mind. If you are not strong enough as a man for your woman, she will leave you for a stronger man. But if she loves you and is faithful to you, she will help you to be a better man. Behind every successful man is a good woman.
 
A man does not have to try to love a woman whom he finds lovely. He can’t help loving her. A woman does not have to try to submit to a real man. She can’t help submitting to him. She wants to surrender to him and yearns to give herself to him. The key is for the man to be a real man, and for the woman to be lovely.
 
Conscious and subconscious mind are different in roles but equal in importance and status. Man is the head but woman is the body and the heart. The head has to direct the body properly or it will get lost. Woman is normally lost without a man in her life. She is a damsel in distress longing for her prince charming to save her and show her the way. The body has to follow what the head tells it to do or they will both not accomplish anything together. Man is usually driven by his emotions for a woman. The most powerful motivating force is not the conscious but the unconscious. The conscious and subconscious mind have to work together in harmony in order to accomplish anything. When two shall agree, it shall be done for them.

It is the nature of the feminine to be led and the nature of the masculine to lead. The feminine hates making decisions or accepting responsibility. The decision making power and responsibility lies with the masculine. When the masculine does not do what a man’s got to do, all hell breaks loose. In places where success is present, it is because the men are acting like men.

A man has got to be decisive and make decisions. But why make decisions when you can follow intuition? When you make decisions that fail, it feels like a waste of time and effort. Your decisions are right on the dot when your intuition is spot on. The key to making decisions is to develop intuition.

The head of every woman is man, but the head of every man is Christ. Man has got to lead the woman but Christ has got to lead the man. You have to use your conscious mind to direct your subconscious, but you have to let the superconscious mind direct your conscious mind. Your conscious mind is connected to your superconscious mind through your subconscious mind through intuition.

That is why male and female were created for each other. Since intuition is direct communication with the spiritual, both God and Devil can use the woman to influence the man. The man needs to know whether it is God or Devil using the woman to influence him by his understanding of the truth and his intentional use of intelligence. It is man that is created with the reasoning power and intellect. Therefore a woman should follow a man who not only is strong in such areas, but also one who uses his will.
 
The unconscious self is the grand director of all our functions. The subconscious mind is the intelligence of the body, both the physical and the energy/emotional bodies. The subconscious mind is the power that heals the body. The healing power of the subconscious mind can be activated or impaired according to the thoughts of the conscious mind. When the conscious mind pictures health, the subconscious mind produces health. When the conscious mind pictures weakness, the subconscious mind produces weakness.
 
A man has to love his woman by taking care of her. A man has to love his own soul (emotional body) and physical body by taking care of it. He does so by taking charge of what goes into it, because what goes in is what comes out. The soul obeys the will of the spirit. The conscious mind impregnates the subconscious mind with its ideas and the subconscious mind carries it out into manifestation. The subconscious mind is the heart that bears fruit and the land that produces the harvest of the seed sown by the conscious mind. He that gets wisdom loves his own soul. Guard your heart with all diligence, for out of it are the issues of life.
 
Conscious and subconscious mind are not two separate minds but they are different aspects of one mind. The role of the man is to love, lead and protect. The role of the woman is to trust, respect and follow. You can tell how much a woman has of her man by how much love she has from him. You can tell how much a man has of his woman by how much compliance his has from her. This is how you can access their relationship. What one gender does for the other, it does for itself. What the conscious and subconscious mind does for the other, it is the mind doing it for itself.
 
Male and female exist in every person. The more developed a person’s masculine and feminine qualities are, the more complete, integrated and whole he/she is. Each person should love, protect, respect, trust, lead and follow himself/herself. You are the will and the emotion, the brain and the heart, the head and the body.
 
The more balanced a person’s male and female side is, the more attractive that person is. A woman who is very lovely but she can assert herself. A man who is strong but he can feel and has feelings. Such are the people who represent the perfect type of mate that everyone desires.
 
There is also such a thing as role reversal between the conscious and subconscious mind. The conscious mind has to trust and follow while the subconscious mind directs and protects. Follow your heart and allow it to direct you. Your intuition can lead you through feelings. Trust your subconscious mind and allow it to protect you. The conscious and subconscious mind operate as equals. One is not above the other. They function side by side.
 
The will is directed by desire. You can’t fight against desire with the will. You have to use desire to override desire. Desire is a feeling. In this area, the conscious mind is directed by the subconscious mind. Since thinking and emotion are symbiotic, you have to use your conscious mind to think thoughts that will produce a different set of feelings to conflict and neutralize the first. But a person’s truest feelings can never be truly overridden because they are his/her essence. You can override a faulty desire by allowing the desire of the universal mind to impress upon your subconscious mind. Give your heart to God and he will give you a new heart.[/hidepost]