The most important thing to protect is confidence and belief in self. It is the foundation of all personal success. You can achieve anything when you believe in yourself. But you will fail when you doubt yourself. The feeling of confidence is a positive state of vibration where your subconscious mind is directed towards the success of a thing. It is when you are single minded and fully aligned with the realization of your goal. Your confidence is your personal magnetic field that attracts that which you desire to you.

It is a fallacy to think that you lose nothing when you attempt something and fail at it. The lack of understanding about the psychology of life is the reason why people stay failures while finding it harder to succeed. It may seem that there is very little external loss, but the loss is great when it is internal loss. It is imperative to consider how a situation might affect how you feel if it doesn’t go well for you before you endeavor to engage it. Watch for how it affects your internal world more than your external reality.

When you increase in confidence, you increase in success. When you increase in success, you increase in confidence. Create positive reinforcement instead of negative reinforcement. Focus more on doing things that get your positive results and less on doing things that keep making you disappointed. Choose to engage in situations that you’re more likely to win than lose. Successful businesses grow from strength to strength. Each positive experience is a positive reinforcement that increases your power.
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Every failure puts a dent or diminishes your confidence in some way. That makes you less powerful and reduces the possibility of success. It is alright to keep trying at a certain goal. But there must be a limit by which you allow yourself to keep going. Intelligent investors know how to cut their losses before it’s too much in order to use their wealth elsewhere that will increase it instead. Stop trying too much to pursue a certain person or sell to a certain customer if you keep getting the wrong kind of response.

The rule of being a super achiever is to never go down. You can go down externally by reduced performance or internally by reduced confidence. You do not want to lose either of it. If you spend more time with the right customers, you will have more confidence with the harder ones. If you spend more time with people who appreciate you, then you will have more confidence and attractive energy to win the hearts of those who have yet to accept you. Relate more with those who respond positively toward you.

Don’t set yourself up for unnecessary defeat, all for the sake of trying to be brave. It’s foolishness to try to conquer your fears by doing something you are feeling uncertain or scared about. You are already not in the right state of being and therefore your doing would naturally cause you to foul up. Then when you do fail, you would fear doing it again even more than before. The wise way to succeed is not to jump headfirst into anything you are not ready for. Develop the right consciousness and state of mind first.

The secret is to set yourself up in a situation where you have the advantage. Increase your chances of winning. Enter at a time when you are ready, wear clothes by which you feel better in, get yourself into a more comfortable state of mind. Don’t be stupid and think that you can just go ahead and do it without all those things that will make you feel your best. The better you feel, the more power you have and the more likely you will succeed. Make the most of every chance and you will not lose unnecessarily.

There is no need to be invincible. Let others try to overcome their weaknesses. Champions focus only on playing to their strengths and bringing the fight in their own territory. The wisdom of the best is contrary to the wisdom of the good. The best don’t do what the good do because they do only the best. If you keep doing the best, you will keep getting the best results for yourself. Relate with people in a way that displays your best qualities. Bring them into your reality. Be the one with the power over all.

It is better to run away sometimes. It is better to run away when you are afraid or not ready. Don’t be a fool by fighting a losing battle. Live to fight another day. Each time you are hurt, it takes time to recover. If you prevent yourself from getting hurt in the first place, you can work on greater conquest. When you are not confident of winning, you are more prone to experiencing defeat. It’s wise to back off first and build your confidence or engage in other things. Always be in a state of power more than anything.

Be prepared first and get ready whenever you want to do anything. Visualize the situation happening as you desire it to be. Affirm positive things to yourself. Get your act together and go do it right. Make every shot your best shot. Lower the risks by approaching the situation in your favor. Control the factors of chaos by having a plan. It isn’t the situation that is risky, but it is the person engaging it that is risky. The more you set yourself up for winning, the more you guarantee yourself success time and again.

Even if you have to fight a losing battle, at least set yourself up to have lesser chances of losing, and then go in and fight. Play the game of life like a smart player. You can always make it in every situation somehow by using your brains. Don’t engage in situations if you are too emotionally involved in it. Detachment is important for the purpose of preventing yourself from suffering internal loss as much as possible. Keep your sense of self as whole and intact as possible while you engage all things in life.

You have to tap into your strengths and build yourself from there. By drawing power from other sources of strengths or accomplishments, you are able to engage the situation at hand powerfully and with higher capability. And gain further power in the process. This is how power begets power and increases itself exponentially. Tap into different states. You have to empower yourself with the things that empower you and give you positive emotions, mental states and energies. Increase capability by building on successes.

It is best not to sin. It is best to remain as perfect as possible. By sinning, I mean holding yourself in a negative vibration by thinking thoughts and doing things that cause unfortunate or undesirable things to happen to you, which then causes you to expect such things to be more likely to happen in your experience. Whatsoever is not of faith is sin. It is best to live life feeling as positive, optimistic, unworried and safe with as little expectation of negative things as possible.
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