Secrets of Mind and Reality - MindReality.com

Health, wealth and relationship are the three main areas of manifesting desires. Health is the easiest thing to create. That is because it is to do with your own body, and your own body is mostly within your direct control.

Wealth is more complex and challenging to create. To achieve significant wealth, one must deal with many more things that are to do with self, other people, systems, money, law, market forces, etc. There is a lot more that needs to be learned, managed and worked with. But wealth is still simple enough to create since the main outcome is money, and money is a universal resource that can come from many places and different people.

Relationship is the most complex and it is where the greatest difficulties and challenges arise. That is because you are looking to create that one special relationship with that one special person. It is not as universal a thing as money but a very personal and unique situation you are trying to work with.

The difference in difficulty between the three areas is also correlated with the different level of control you have in each area. Your reality creating powers extend from your inner world to your outer world. You have the greatest reality creating control over your body and personal space, and your reality creating control diminishes the further outwards you go. Your health and body are in your immediate space and therefore you have the greatest reality creating control over it.
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Wealth is something you can control through your business, your company, and your tools which you use to reach out and allow money to come to you. You have control over the system you create, which in turn has an effect over the money that you are seeking to bring to you. Also, when it comes to wealth, you have more options to choose regarding the people and customers that you work with to bring money from.

In relationship, you are trying to form something that runs deeper and lasts longer. You have least control in this area especially over how much the other person accepts, cooperates with you or even love you. Relationship depends a lot more on being “lucky” or blessed to find the right person than it does on how much you can do to create a successful relationship. Relationship depends on synchronicity and fate than all other things in the world.

That is why the natural order of manifestation is that you can have health first, wealth next, and finally the relationship that you desire. But the attainment and sustaining of all three is beyond your full control and requires divine help.

You can have more control in relationship through the tools of communication that you use in the relationship. The more channels of communication there are open to you in the relationship, the more opportunity and ways by which you can communicate with that person. Any relationship that is deficient in the channels of communication will be riskier in sustaining in the long term.

Long distance relationship means there is deficient in communicating in physical proximity with that person. You cannot touch them. You cannot feel their energy and aura or affect it with your own as easily as when you are in the same location as them.

Language barrier means you can’t fully find the words to express yourself in their language that they can understand. You can keep a simple relationship through simple words but you can’t go deep enough and discuss things in complexity if you can’t speak all of your own language to them.

It is best to be in complete health and well-being so that your five senses and even your sixth sense are in full functionality to receive information and communicate it back through your perfectly functioning voice, body, facial expressions and aura.

Technology also plays a significant part in relationship. Some technology allows you to communicate by text, and you can save chat history where you can always go back and re-read what has been said and learn, investigate and discover more things about the relationship. So when something goes wrong in a relationship, you have a chance to go back and trace how things happened instead of being clueless in the dark about it.

Some Apps even have a feature that signifies when your message has been received and read by the other person. The knowledge that your message has gotten through to the other person properly eliminates a significant amount of uncertainty and misunderstanding in your communication and reaching out to the other person.

If you know where the person lives, you can go to their house to find them. If you know where they work, you can send a message there. If you know people that are in communication with them, you can communicate through these people to that person.

Knowledge gives you control. Tools give you control. And the more control you have, the more reality creating control you have in manifesting something.

You can also have greater level of reality creating control by choosing the person you deal with. In relationship, if you choose someone who loves you and is willing to work things out with you, you can have more certainty in how the person will behave and respond towards you. The more someone wants you and you know it, the more certainty you have and that certainty puts you in control. The same thing goes when you reach out to customers who are hungry and ready buyers for your offer. You have more certainty of the outcome and that puts you in greater control of your income.

Sun Tzu in the Art of War says that “The victorious strategist only seeks battle after the victory has been won, whereas he who is destined to defeat first fights and afterwards looks for victory.” If you choose to pursue a relationship with someone only after you have gained certainty that it can last, then you have chosen to play a game that you have already won. The same goes for when you pursue a marketing strategy for your business that is already targeted to the right people to succeed.
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