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The reason why the feminine puts up resistance towards the masculine is to see if he would persist. It is to test if his intention to love is stronger than her resistance. A woman is like the world. When you want to offer your gifts to the world, it may not readily accept and would instead resist to see if you are dedicated enough to pursue that which you believe in. The world will constantly test your capacity to give in the face of refusal. A woman knows that how you are towards her would be how you are towards the world. If you surrender at the slightest sign of resistance from her or give up halfway, she knows that you would also give up in offering your gifts to the world when you are met with resistance and difficulty.

If you faint in the face of adversity, your strength is weak. She wants to know if you are the kind of man who have what it takes to give her the happiness she deserves in this world. If she can’t trust you with living your life from your deepest truth and fullest capacity, she can’t trust you with her life. Both woman and world cannot be fooled, they know when you are just playing around. They want to receive you for real.

There is no difference between entering a woman’s feminine heart and entering the world fully. Both forms of intercourse require perception, spontaneity and a strong connection to deep truth in order to penetrate the chaos in a way that love prevails. To bloom woman and world takes authenticity, persistence and courage of heart. A man must know the truth at his core and be willing to give his gifts fully. No holding back. He must dedicate himself to penetrating woman and world with his true gifts. Persist through their resistance to penetrate through their fears and insecurities and open their heart to receive your everlasting love.
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A superior man lives from his deepest core, fearlessly giving his gifts. If you were absolutely fearless, would you be earning a living in exactly the same way as you are now? All men are afraid, unless they are perfectly free. Most men choose a job they know they can do well and easily, and don’t even approach the fullest giving of their gift. Their lives are relatively secure and comfortable but dead. Dare to pursue your desires and live life the way you want to. When you are acting according to your deepest purpose and truth, you are making yourself free.

Many men are poking woman and world in mediocre ways. Few men are willing to give their deepest genius. When a man is willing to embrace his truth and give everything he’s got, he will penetrate the world and his woman from the core of his being and ravish them so deeply that they bloom into love without limit. He can press himself into his woman and the world with such enduring love that they open and receive his deepest gifts. They will open up in love and receive him fully through your adamant love and unrelenting heart, only to resist and test him again moments or days later. Only through your persistence, fearlessness and loving service does the world yield to your efforts.

A woman wants a man who is bold and confident in expressing himself to her and to the world. Boldness is need for taking chances to accomplish great things. Whenever you hesitate you weaken your will. Boldness is required to capitalize on opportunity or to create it in the moment. She wants a man who is quick to decide and spontaneous. Confidence is a contagious feeling which has the power to affect consensus reality with your ideas. She wants a man who is so sure of himself and who knows that he can have whatever he wants, including her. She wants a man whose will is so strong that he can bend and shape reality according to his wishes. If a man is bold, confident and willful with her, he would be bold, confident and willful with the world. Boldness, confidence and will are requirements of success.

One of the deepest pleasures of intimacy a woman experiences is in testing a man, and then feeling that he is not moved off course by her challenge. She cannot move him because he is already what he is, with or without her. She cannot scare him away because he is penetrating her in fearless love, pervading her heart and body. She cannot distract him because he is totally committed to his deepest truth and will not bend to her influence. A woman tests a man to see if she can trust him to be a real man. She will continue testing to see if nothing has changed and he has maintained his integrity always. If he allows her emotions and unpredictable behavior to take you off course, off your path or purpose, distract you, upset you, then you fail the test and diminish her attraction for you.

A woman will always test her man for the pleasures of feeling his strength in loving, his capacity to transcend her nuisance, his persistence in his own truth and his ability to share that truth in love with her, even in the midst of her emotional storms. She will poke your weak spots to feel your strength. If you collapse by letting her deflate you, you’ve flunked the test. If you are free and loving, nothing she says can collapse you. You don’t need her validation in order for you to be loving. You simply are loving. The truth of you is love.

She wants to feel that your truth and love are stronger than the nonsense that she throws at you. She wants to feel that you are free and strong enough to stand full, loving her through the storm, embracing her complete feminine power, dark and light. Can you handle the flame? That depends on what you are made of. That which is made of gold, silver and precious stone will stand the heat. That which is not will be burnt away. The way you relate to a woman’s chaos reflects the way you relate to the chaos of the world. She wants to feel that you are up to the challenge so she can trust that you are able to handle the challenges of the relationship and life in the world.

The measure of a man is his unflappability in the face of what’s arising, especially feminine energy which is constantly trying to distract him. A man’s relationship with feminine energy is his relationship to life. If he is constantly disturbed, ruffled and agitated by feminine energy, then that is his relationship to his entire rest of his life. Whatever energy she offers you in the form of her mood and emotion is an opportunity to master it with your fearless loving. Be so full in your loving, so strong and stable in your presence, that she can just let go and surrender the limits she has put on her feelings. Let the emotions of her heart flow unguarded. Let her love be expressed with no limits. Let her go mad with love.

A woman and the world will always present the man with challenges. He should be living fully and giving his gift even in the face of those challenges otherwise he is simply waiting for an imaginary future which never comes. Men who have lived significant lives are men who never waited. Not for money, security, opportunity or women. Superior men give what they want most to the world and to their women at every present moment. Every moment waited is a moment wasted, and each wasted moment lessens your clarity of purpose.

A woman may like it when her man values her above everything else. A part of her may like it when her man chooses to be with her over doing something else that is important. But a deeper part of her which is her true core will not be satisfied and will in fact be disappointed with him. Contrary to the common idea, a woman does not really want her man to treat her as the most important thing in his life! She wants a man who has his mission and purpose as his highest priority. To put your higher purpose first is to put God first.

She wants a man who is willing to reject everything else for the sake of his higher purpose. She would rather that he choose to follow his deepest purpose even if it meant sacrificing being with her when he was in a situation where he faced such a decision. If she does not accept your dedication to your higher purpose no matter what, then she is obviously not the quality woman you are looking for. Both woman and the world are there to test your dedication to your higher purpose.

A superior man spends a specific amount of time with his woman in absolute attention and total presence and then returns to carry on his mission. A woman will be more fulfilled with thirty minutes a day of your undivided attention and ravishing love than she will be with a few hours of your weak and divided presence because your heart is not entirely into it. Time spent with your woman should be time you really want to be with her more than anything else. If you’d rather be doing something else, she will feel it and you’ll both be unsatisfied.

The world is like a woman and a woman is like the world. This is the reason why a man tells a woman that she means the world to him. He who seeks to master the world must master a woman, and vice versa.

A man has to see that even his relationship or interaction with a woman is in line with a higher purpose. Whatever happens in the relationship is secondary compared to the higher purpose. That purpose is to help him spiritually evolve as a being and everything that happens in the interaction whether good or bad, serves to help him evolve.[/hidepost]