Secrets of Mind and Reality - MindReality.com

To be a creator of your reality, you have to be in control of your reality. To be in control of your reality, you have to be in control of every aspect of your reality. One of the key aspects of your reality is the people in it. To be a master of your reality requires mastering and being in control of other people. To master other people, you have to first master yourself. You’ll find other people limiting you and being out of your control until you overcome your own self limitations towards controlling and mastering them.

Those who are masters of their reality are also masters of the people in it. When you can change your limited perceptions about mastering reality to match those who are masters, you will become unlimited in what you can and will do. Masters have no limit and they control the game because they know how it works. They know that the players are very much a part of the game environment as is everything else. There will be proficient players and poor players. A master knows he has to work with all kinds.

How you handle the world begins from how you see the world. The more deluded you are in the way you see the world, the more ineffective you will be in engaging it. The more clear or enlightened you are in the way you see the world, the more power you have over it. To see with enlightened eyes is to see what is, not what should be. Awareness is knowing how things work and what’s going on. When you can free your mind of the illusions of the world, you will be free to move without being limited by it.
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The very idea of controlling other people is unacceptable to some people because they have incomplete perspectives about human rights. They think that controlling any person is going against freewill and everyone has the right to independence of thinking and acting. The fundamental truth is everybody has the right to freewill and their own way of thinking and acting. But there is more to that in this world that many people do not see. In an ideal world, control of people would not be necessary but this isn’t so.

Freewill is the fundamental characteristic of every conscious being. Everybody is a freewill entity and has the right to make their own decisions, but most people are not acting like they have freewill. Many people have used their freewill to give up their function of freewill. They hate to make decisions and accept responsibility. They’d rather follow the decision of another person and let others have the responsibility. They go around being under the control of another and pretending they’re in control themselves.

Independence of thinking is what every person with a brain should have. Having freewill means being able to think for yourself. But most people around can hardly think for themselves. Most people would rather let others do all the thinking for them. The thinkers and the decision makers are the ones who control the rest. That is why CEO’s and bosses are the most rich. They are the thinkers of the company. The rest are the worker drones. The higher level of management you go, the more thinking is involved.

Since there are many people with freewill and independence of thinking who neither use their freewill nor act like they have independence of thinking, they are open to the control of those who do use freewill and independence of thinking. It is only right for this to be so, because non thinking individuals tend to mess up things for those who are thinkers. It is pointless to tell them to think because they would fight against it. These people need to be controlled or things will get out of control and turn bad for you.

Every master of a game knows that when there are poor players on your team and you really want to win, they need to be told what to do and sometimes even forcefully. Most people in this world are clueless and tend to act in dumb ways and make stupid mistakes that will affect you. To make the best out of this situation, you must be willing to master and be in control of other people. Tell others what to do and not let them tell you what to do. Direct others so that every situation will work out well for you.

It may be a lot more desirable to lead a team of leaders where everyone can think and act for the good of the whole group. But to be a master leader in this world, you also need to be able to direct and control people who are idiots or weak minded. It is people like you who are willing to control in an intentional and guilt free manner that bring order to the disorder that most people are creating in this world. As long as this world exists, there will be people who need to be controlled and you need to control them.

Of course proficient players don’t need to be controlled and you can let them play their own way because they will help your team to win. But sometimes even they also may foul up in certain areas. You need to control and direct others in areas where you are better and wiser. In fact, be willing to control all people in some way, some of the time. If you want to be a total master, you have to be a very commanding person. Others will almost seem to bow in your presence when you take on such an attitude.

To the superior man, all things are possible. The world belongs to him, and is his estate. He fears nothing, dreads nothing and stops at nothing. He asks no privileges, but demands them. He dominates, and cannot cringe. His requests are orders. Opposition flees at his approach. He levels mountains, fills in valleys, and travels on an even plane where stumbling is unknown. He wins in every situation because he makes the environment his own and dominates the conditions. It is his reality and he owns in it.[/hidepost]