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Women want a man who is a mix of the good guy and bad guy. Women are fascinated by aloof, independent, dominant men, because they fantasize that they will be the one who’ll bring his sensitive, caring side out. Around others, he may be a jerk, but to her he’ll be able to express his nurturing side. So what she wants is the good guy within the bad guy, but she’s prepared to put a lot of effort into finding the good guy inside the bad guy. A man with the two polarities is the complete package she desires.

Women are attracted to confident, powerful men. Their power is immediately visible because of the care they take in what they surround themselves with. They drive fast, powerful cars and they wear powerful clothing with the same ease that they casual ones. Ever notice a well dressed man walking down the street, exuding confidence like cologne? One look at these men and you know they know that people are looking at them, and you know that they don’t give a damn. Clothe up with this powerful attitude.
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Women are attracted to exclusive men. A hero does not have time to waste with frivolous social activities that most people are involved in. He’s too passionate about his job and single-minded in his pursuit of excellence. Simply put, he’s got better things to do. As a result, he’s indifferent to most women. It will take a very special woman, like the heroine that all women dream of being, to win his heart. You naturally set yourself as exclusive when you’re focused with your time and the people you relate with.

Don’t let anyone walk over you. No one has the right to talk to you in an aggressively confrontational way, lay hands on you, or threaten you. Stand up for yourself. Make it clear that you won’t put up with that kind of treatment, even from a woman. Even though your immediate instinct may be to back down to avoid a scene, squash it. Scenes draw attention, and there are always going to be women in the crowd watching whom you can impress by the way you handle the situation. Be a man and handle conflict.

Women want men who don’t take no for an answer. What makes an alpha male appealing is that anything he wants, he gets. Decide whether you want the woman and behave accordingly. You do not need to pressure a woman who isn’t interested. Back away gracefully, with detachment, but don’t give up on making her change her mind. Use other opportunities to connect and lead her so naturally into changing her mind that she does not remember that she didn’t originally like you until she’s in your arms.

Charm makes women feel more alive and more feminine. One of the best ways to develop an irresistible charm is to love women. When a guy finds women fascinating and loves everything about them, women can sense it from a mile away. Women get turned on when they feel appreciated, admired, and desired. Men with charm feel this way towards women in general, and when they turn the full power of their attention on a particular woman, she melts. Feel appreciation toward women and focus it completely.

Girls want guys who are real. They do not want model good looking guys who can say and do the right things but have no depth. They want guys who are survivors and who have experienced the realities of life. Forget about the perfect image of the man who seems to have everything going perfectly for him all the time. You may find that sharing your more difficult experiences will make women more and more irresistibly attracted to you. Women are fascinated by guys who exude authenticity and honesty.

Women also appreciate a man who is dedicated to growing as a person. You do not have to present yourself as Mr. Perfect even if you may be one. It is more effective to present yourself as Mr. Work-In-Progress. She wants to grow as a person too and this is someone she can relate with. Share with her your goals for yourself and ways you are trying to improve as a person. You will soon find a girl interested in sharing that journey with you. Woman was created as a helper for Man in this world of creation.

Women are fascinated by men who are successful. It is part of their drive to find a good mate for her children. Successful men have the power, status, and financial wealth that ensure the best upbringing for any children they might have. The only way women know you’re successful, when you first meet them, is by your appearance and the way you talk. Even if you are a car cleaner or coffee maker, you can still exude success. Exuding confidence about your life and future makes women have hope in yours.

Attitude is the underlying influence of all the other factors. When you have a confident, devil-may-care attitude, women will want to be with you. Belief in yourself is one of the qualities most irresistible to women that you can have. Belief in yourself is what gives you the power to appreciate women, to feel confident about your future, to stand up for yourself when being confronted, to not take no as an answer, and to share your honest experiences without fear. Having not a care gives her freedom to be with you.

The totality of what women want in a man is one who has his entire inner world together, is able to work powerfully in his outer world, and is able to feel and express love and appreciation towards the good things in his environment, especially towards her. He is able to focus his energies on what he wants, and is able to act strongly with his intents. He is able to have an attitude of detachment in everything that happens. In a nutshell, he strongly reflects the True Self to her and is a master creator of his reality.[/hidepost]